What is difference between growing up in China compared to America? Is the Chinese way of raising his children too harsh or are the American parents too soft?

It is difficult to give a concrete answer to this question, as these are two countries with a very large population, which also means that there are many ways in which parents raise their children.

When it comes to school, the Chinese expect the child's grades to be perfect, if the child does not get top marks, the parents believe that it is the child's fault for not being sufficiently committed.

Whereas Americans have a completely different point of view when it comes to school. They let the children make their own decisions and expect nothing but that they give their best.

It is far from the same harshness as the Chinese who expect the children to give everything they have and ultimately pay them back to show respect for everything they have done.