Parenting is often a very sensitive topic due to the seriousness it has to the majority of the people discussing it. Nevertheless, there is still today a huge difference in how kids are treated and taught at home.
It is due to this mindset that individualism has fainted, and the discipline has thrived. In the west, the mindset is quite the opposite.
To an American parent, the well-being and fundamentals are extremely important because the goal opposite to the Chinese parents is to make the children happy in the present and think about the future another time.